Be a Mentor - the More You Know, the More You Grow

In high school I learned to play racket ball, as didIf you wanted to become a master carpenter, you
several of my friends. Over the next year, I played thestudied and worked with a master carpenter. You
best players I could find. My friends only played amongasked questions, you picked his brain, you watched
themselves. Sure I lost a lot of games at first, butand you learned. You became the best by studying
during that year I also learned and grew more thanthe best.
any of the others I had started with. I became the bestIf you are one of those who actually does know more
by playing the best.than most of those around you, don't be greedy. God
In photography, you have a similar option. You cangave you a gift, so that you could share. Having a
take pictures and show them to your friends andmentor can be as basic as a father showing a son
family, who probably know less than you do . . . or youhow to tie his shoe. Being a mentor can be as basic,
go out and find someone who already has experienceas giving an encouraging word, to those who may be
and learn from them. You don't have to take 20 yearsabout to give up.
to learn from someone who has 20 years ofThis concept of helping one another is as old as time
experience, but you do have to be willing to listen.itself. Unfortunately, in today's world we often get so
Don't take this wrong. I'm not saying you can't learntied up in ourselves, that pride robs us of the chance to
from books, because you can. But in a very realbecome the very best we can be. Photography is a
sense, the written word is much like an iceberg. Whatlot like computers: the more you know, the more you
you can read about represents only about 10% ofrealize there is to know. Find yourself a mentor, and
what's out there, 90% of what a master photographernever stop learning.
knows comes from experience. Fact of life; there willOnce you've reached the top, remember how you got
always be someone who knows more than you do.there. It's your turn to give an encouraging word. It's
Don't be ashamed of it, embrace it and grow.your turn to be a parent, a friend, a guide. In other
In the old days, when someone wanted to learn awords, it's your turn to be a mentor. Being humble is
trade they would become an apprentice, sometimesone thing, but don't refuse to help others because you
for years. The idea was simple, if you wanted to learndon't know it all yet. Part of the learning process, is
how to become a blacksmith, you studied a blacksmith.being able to teach what you know.