How To Throw A Kid's Birthday Party That Everyone Will Be Talking About

There is nothing wrong with having a birthday party atMUSIC:
Chuck E. Cheese or a place with bouncy houses, butNothing sets the mood of a party like music. For the
with just a little planning and effort, you can give aEgyptian party we got a cd of the music they played
birthday party that people will be talking about for aat King Tut's tour (from 30 years ago, not the current
long time. My husband and I consider planning our 2tour). It sounded ancient and mysterious and a little
sons yearly parties as a hobby. We work on them alleery. For the games we revved things up with the
year long, and are able to take our time as well asIndiana Jones theme and "Walk Like An Egyptian" by
spread the costs out. If you pick your theme earlythe Bangles. For the Indiana Jones party we had old
enough, you can afford to wait for sales, clearances,1930's jazz playing in Club Obi Wan, and an Indiana
and coupons to buy a lot of the supplies.Jones soundtrack in another area of the house.
The most important thing to decide on is the theme.SCENTS:
Your child will most likely have 2 cents to put in on thisThis may seem strange, but there is a variety of
unless he is young enough to let you decide. With ourscented oils, candles, and incense you can get that
older son, we decided as soon as he was born thatreally enhance the setting also. Think what it would
each year we would choose a different continent assmell like. Are you by the ocean, in the dessert, in the
his theme. When he turned 8, he finally got to pick hisforest? Make the smell of your house match.
own. With our younger son, we are doing differentRemember you want to indulge all 5 senses to evoke
periods of Americana starting with the California Goldthe feeling that they have traveled through time and
Rush c.1850.ended up smack dab in your theme.
Once you have the theme, you can use a simpleGAMES AND ACTIVITIES:
outline of what you will need, and start filling it in.Have you ever been to a party where there is
INVITATIONS:absolutely nothing to do or maybe just a rented
The first thing you will need is an invitation to send out.bouncy house? The kids get bored after a little while
Most people are computer savvy enough to do simpleor start to run crazy and get into trouble. Am I right?
desktop publishing from their own computers for this.Have you been there? You want to keep your party
All you need is some nice paper or blank note cards,structured structured structured. I actually give out an
and you can give the details inside. We always liked toevent timeline at the start so everybody knows what
steer clear of the ho hum fill in fields look, and ratheris happening when. I plan for at least 3 games, and
make it pertinent to the theme. For our son's Egyptianthen a craft or coloring activity also. Some children will
party, it was a 1920's telegram announcing therefuse to eat and will need something to keep them
discovery of a new tomb and asking fellowbusy. For an Indiana Jones party we gave, we had the
archaeologists to come and assist with the dig. Thekids decipher a code, choose the correct Holy Grail
invitation should set the stage for the actual party. Forout of several choices, find a diamond and an
example, the telegrams were printed on tanantidote vial in a pool filled with ice, paint necklaces,
parchment paper and used an actual telegram font forplay a steal the grail game, and walk on stepping
the printing. They were slipped into window envelopesstones in the correct order to spell I-E-H-O-V-A-H. It's
just like the old time Western Union ones. An Egyptianbetter to have too many activities than not enough.
sticker sealed the envelope, and we printed CAIRO inPRIZES:
faded red letters on the front as if it had beenYou will probably want to invest in a few special prizes
stamped. The stamp itself is very important. Do notfor the winners of the games. Again, you can find
use any new postage stamp just because it has thereally nice things at deep discounts sometimes.
correct postage. You can use any US stamp everGOODY BOXES OR BAGS:
issued as long as it has not been canceled. eBay hasMake these as unique as you can. For Indy we found
tons of vintage unused stamps, and I bet you can findmini wooden crates on Craigslist. With a little stenciling
many that suit your theme. You may just have to usethey looked just like the crate the ark of the covenant
multiples or get different ones to equal the correctwas placed in. We put in a museum tag, a mini
amount.sankara stone, a small cross of Coronado, antidote vial,
DECORATIONS:plastic diamond,  gold coin, spider, snake, rat, bug, and
Next, you'll want to put some thought into decorations.an archaeology club pin. We also gave each child a
You want to transform your house into a location ofplastic goblet (grail) to take home. Give one to each
your theme. Using the example of the Egyptian partychild. Adults do not need to receive one.
again, we created an archaeological site roping off theFAVORS:
yard and setting up tents. The tomb was the largestYes, favors are different than goody bags, and you
tent and inside was a cardboard sarcophagus, canopicshould have enough for all guests. I usually make
jars, animal print blankets, and anything we thoughtcookies and place them in those nice clear bags you
looked like it would have been in a tomb. Try to keepcan get at Michael's. Again using the Indiana Jones
this in mind when shopping, do not go for printedtheme, we purchased a replica headpiece to the staff
"theme" items. Ask yourself what people would haveof Ra on eBay. My husband made an impression in
really seen and used. For example, Indiana Jonessculpey (just like Toht did with his hand). I used this to
would not use plates, cups, and napkins with his facemake springerle cookies and even melted crushed
on them. He would most likely use some sort of metalorange lollipop into the centers so it looked like a jewel.
mess kit, bamboo plates, coconut shells, etc.After baking, I brushed with edible gold petal dust and
FOOD:they looked pretty neat. Instead of using the silver twist
Here is where my husband and I disagree. He thinkstie that comes with the bags, we tied museum tags on
we should serve kid friendly food no matter what thethem with rough twine.
theme. We invite the entire family of each child whoTHANK YOU'S:
receives an invitation, so the food is not just for theLastly, you will need some nice thank you cards to
kids, and I want it to be an educational experience also.send out after the party. It is nice if you can find time
(Definitely plan on having enough food for adults too. Ito take photos of the guests at the party to include.
have been to parties before where the food "is justFor a Pirates of the Caribbean theme, we took head
for the kids" and the adults stand around hungry.) Forshots of everyone as they entered and didn't tell them
the Egyptian party we had kebabs, hummus, baklava,that on the DVD there is special feature that allows
and yogurt drinks. I just looked up Egyptian recipesyou to turn pictures into the "cursed". It was really really
online and went with what sounded good. The cakecreepy, but funny too. Our guests were shocked
we made to look like the 3 pyramids on a cake boardwhen they got those in the mail. You will probably not
sprinkled with crushed graham crackers, and addedneed to have as many Thank You cards as you did
little figurines and trees. Make sure you have plenty toinvitations because not everybody was able to attend.
drink especially if the weather is warm. Allow for 3-4You can spend a little more time to make these
servings of punch, water, soda per person. Be sure topersonal especially if you have scrap booking skills.
prepare whatever you can ahead of time so that youUse stickers and cut outs and make it a little 3
aren't rushed on party day.dimensional if you can.