Stop the Silence - Sean Patrick's Fight Against Ovarian Cancer

The first message that she was dying came byher energetic and insistent attitude, she’s
bicycle. Sean Patrick rode up the steep trail onpenetrated the wall of scientific jargon to understand
Smuggler Mountain, Aspen, Colorado, on a cool, pre-fallher disease. What she learned inspired her to reach
day in 1995. She had spent many summer afternoonsout to others.
biking through the Aspen groves, enjoying the late sunSince its inception, she says, the foundation has
shining patchwork on the trail. Normally energized fromprovided doctors with research grants; provided seed
the strenuous workout and her daily 15- to 22-milegrants to a number of small communities, which have
rides, Patrick was shocked when she became so outallowed them to offer immediate assistance to aid
of breath that she had to get off the bike to avoidpatients with travel, hotel rooms, and childcare while
throwing up.they are undergoing treatment; and established
“It was radical,” she says. “Iawareness programs throughout the United States.
couldn’t get up.” At first she thought shePatrick has also convinced thousands of women and
had over trained or suffered from exhaustion from toomen to work with her. Among those women are
much traveling. Confirming her ideas, Patrick’sfamous alpinist Kitty Calhoun and Salt Lake City, Utah,
doctor suggested that she slow down and get aresident Hillary Silberman. Both women worked with
hobby. “If you can’t’ slowPatrick to create a video highlighting the HERA
down,” he said to her, “I can always giveFoundation and ovarian cancer.
you a prescription for Valium.”According to Silberman, making the video and
After weeks of still not being able to ride or rockvolunteering for HERA changed her life.
climb—her favorite sport—Patrick returned toSilberman’s mother died in 2003 from ovarian
her doctor, who did blood work, but found nothingcancer, and she says that she felt helpless in the face
obviously wrong. He told her not to worry. Itof her mother’s illness. “My involvement
wasn’t until 1997 that she finally found out thatwith HERA gave me the tools to work with to deal
she had a rare form of ovarian cancer calledwith my mother’s death as well as people to
Micropapillary Serous Carcinoma. After the lateconnect with who understand where I’m coming
discovery, Patrick endured seven surgeries and, at onefrom.”
point in 2001 after being flown to a hospital via flight forBy being involved and being proactive, Silberman
life, doctors told her she wouldn’t live past sixexplains, she has done something positive for others
weeks.by presenting them with information. “I have also
Patrick did live, and she says, in large part it was duedone something positive for myself by beginning to
to her experiences in the mountains. She was strongthink about what I needed to do to protect myself and
from regularly biking and lifting weights, and she wasget early detection.”
mentally balanced after decades of rock climbing. TheWith cancer affecting most of the female members
wilderness and leadership skills she gleaned in placesof her family, Silberman is at a high risk for contracting
like the Rocky Mountains prepared her for thethe disease, although she doesn’t currently have
greatest challenge of her life—surviving thatit. Her nurse practitioner tried to convince her not to
six-week ordeal in the hospital.worry, but Patrick and the Climb for Life events
While on her deathbed in the ICU, a doctor inserted aconvinced Silberman to follow through on her own to
blood gas line in her body, and it hurt like hell, she says.seek the medical services she needs for early
“I snapped and got angry, and at that moment Idetection. “The feeling of strength, perseverance
came back into my body.” She likens the feelingand tenaciousness that climbing engenders made me
to being really scared after a rock climbing fall or whennot give up when professionals were telling me not to
she has been stuck on the side of a mountain on aworry.”
ledge in a thunderstorm. “I would get scared andAs with most female-specific diseases, says Patrick,
then angry, and that would act as a catalyst to getovarian cancer has typically been ignored by the
moving. I knew if I did not keep moving in the face ofmedical industry. Despite the fact that it kills women of
my disease that I would not make it.”all ages and more women than all the other
Since her extraordinary recovery six years ago,gynecological cancers combined, many doctors are
Patrick continues to move rapidly forward. Not onlyignorant of its symptoms and think the disease affects
does she still climb and play in the mountains—sheonly the elderly. This, explains Patrick, partially results
topped out on the Grand Teton after 22 hours offrom the medical field’s traditional focus on men
climbing through blizzard conditions in 2004—butand male-specific diseases.
she also decided to make it her mission to raiseFor example, the Agency for Healthcare Research
awareness and money for the cancer that almostand Quality found that “although coronary heart
killed her. “My life’s goal is to prevent asdisease (CHD) causes more than 250,000 deaths in
many women as possible from going through what Iwomen each year, much of the research in the last 20
experienced,” she says.years on CHD has either excluded women entirely or
In the last few years Patrick has helped create anincluded only limited numbers of women.”
ovarian cancer website for the Johns Hopkins MedicalAdditionally, doctors treat women different than men in
Institute, and she regularly travels around the countryhospitals. According to a fall 2001 study published in the
on speaking engagements. Patrick’s crowningJournal of Law, Medicine and Ethics,
achievement is the non-profit HERA Foundation“women’s pain reports are taken less
(Health, Empowerment, Research, Advocacy), whichseriously than men’s, and women receive less
she created in 2002. She organizes Climb For Lifeaggressive treatment than men for their pain.”
events around the country and in Mexico, which bringAlso, women were “more likely to have their pain
women and men together to rock climb, do yoga,reports discounted as ‘emotional’ and
watch climbing slide shows and films, and, mosttherefore, ‘not real.’”
importantly, learn about and raise money for ovarian“I have had several experiences with this kind of
cancer.dismissive treatment by both male and female
Friend and Climb for Life volunteer, Deanne Prankedoctors,” says Patrick. “It is a flaw in how
says that Patrick’s climbing events have beenmedicine is taught—women complain, men
incredibly inspirational for thousands of people.don’t, so they take men’s complaints more
“Sean has brought ovarian cancer out in theseriously. To get the best treatment, you have to find
open and empowered many women such as myselfa doctor—male or female (one is not better than
to take charge of our health and educate our lovedanother in being more empathetic)—that sees you
ones and friends about this kind of cancer.”as a person and not a statistical group.”
Adds Patrick, “The need for perseveranceAlthough Patrick seeks to change the way doctors
forces women to reach deep inside themselves whenview ovarian cancer and other women-specific
they feel like they can’t go further. The lessonsdiseases, she believes it’s more imperative to
you learn from climbing and taking care of yourself inencourage women to take control of their own health.
the wilderness translate into successful life strategiesOvarian cancer is not a silent killer, she says, “the
on a day to day basis.” In fact, Patrick has neverdisease has symptoms, and it’s important that
seen a sport as empowering as climbing is for women.women are made aware of what they are. Women
“Often when I’ve seen women get to thewho go to the doctor with gastrointestinal symptoms
top of a route in the gym, the transformation on theirmust make sure that ovarian cancer is ruled out.”
face is phenomenal,” she explains.Through climbing, Patrick believes that women can be
Sean Patrick’s wide smile greets the climbers astaught to stand up for themselves. Not only do these
they stream into the third-floor room of REI Denver,events teach women self-reliance, but they are also
spring 2004. Running her hand through a shock of“places where we can turn our passion for
white blonde hair, she says she’s nervous whenclimbing into a passion for making a difference.”
speaking publicly, but her voice is steady and vibrant as“I think success in climbing no matter what level
she talks about ovarian cancer and the HERA Climbyou climb at—5.4 to 5.14—translates to
for Life REI Road Tour (now in its third year),successful life strategies,” Patrick says. “I
sponsored by REI, Black Diamond, and HERA. Shewant women who are empowered by the mountains
speaks to the audience with the fluency of someoneto take this back into everyday life, and as it relates to
who possesses a vast knowledge of the disease andthe medical community, I want them to trust their
the politics surrounding it.intuition despite their doctor’s contention that they
After her diagnosis, Patrick became a “researchmay not have a problem. In climbing and in life, trust
maven,” reading everything she could find on theyourself.
subject and hounding doctors all over the country. With