| Most Law of Attraction techniques for manifesting a | | | | that guidance. It won't steer you wrong. |
| fabulous love life include regular visualization, collecting | | | | 4. Love yourself the way you want to be loved. Our |
| images or creating "vision boards" that reflect our | | | | most important relationship in life is the one we have |
| desires, making space for someone new in our lives, | | | | with ourselves, yet we rarely give this the attention it |
| scripting about our partner as if they're already here, | | | | deserves. Every other relationship in our life is a |
| etc. | | | | reflection of how we treat ourselves. For that reason |
| While these processes help bring our dreams of love | | | | (and also just because it feels good), treat yourself the |
| to reality, there are other steps required to allow your | | | | way you want to be treated. Say and do nice things |
| ideal partner to appear. If you're serious about getting | | | | for yourself. When you're good to you, others will be |
| the love life you want, follow these six tips: | | | | too! |
| 1. Get clear about what you want. Before you can | | | | 5. Love others the way you want to be loved. To |
| create the relationship of a lifetime, you need to know | | | | create strong vibrational alignment with the relationship |
| what that is for you. Sometimes people make the | | | | you desire, love others the way you want to be loved. |
| mistake of defining their ideal relationship as being with | | | | Unconditionally, without reservation, openly - however it |
| a specific person, rather than identifying the true | | | | is you want to be loved - offer it to someone else. It's |
| essence of what they really want. Clarify the | | | | another powerful way to create alignment, and guess |
| fundamental feelings, emotions, and experiences you | | | | what - it feels good too! |
| want, and let the Universe fill in the face. (Otherwise | | | | 6. Finally, let go of what's not working in your life. In |
| you may play the game of trying to fit a square peg | | | | order for good things to happen (like getting the love |
| into a round hole.) | | | | life you want), you have to feel good. Eliminate what's |
| 2. If you're in a dissatisfying relationship now, stop | | | | bringing you down; stop putting up with the things |
| pigeon-holing your partner. When we're not happy with | | | | you're tolerating. Whether it's a job, bad habit, |
| a current relationship, we often box our partners in | | | | apartment, relationship - whatever doesn't feel good |
| without realizing it. We think of them as who they have | | | | needs to be remedied. Creating a vacuum in your life |
| been, rather than allowing a mental space for who | | | | allows the Universe to fill it with something better. |
| they might be. | | | | This action item alone can open the window of |
| As long as we hold a mental image of them as the | | | | opportunity that allows an avalanche of good things to |
| person we aren't happy with, they continue to show | | | | come your way! |
| up that way. Give them room to be who they are | | | | You'll find these tips have one thing in common: |
| capable of being by entertaining higher thoughts and | | | | creating vibrational alignment with the relationship you |
| expectations of them. People live up to and down to | | | | dream of. Because "like attracts like," the power of the |
| your expectations! | | | | Law of Attraction is in aligning vibrationally (your |
| 3. Be open. Let the Universe surprise you. Often the | | | | thoughts and emotions) with your desired end result. |
| relationships of a lifetime form in ways you never | | | | Follow these steps, and you're guaranteed to be much |
| would have expected. Connect with your internal | | | | closer to getting the love life you want! |
| guidance (emotions, gut feelings, intuition) and respect | | | | |